Getting Married Soon? Keep In Mind These Wedding Event Preparation Tips

Content writer-Fisker Ernstsen

Unless you have a professional chef and a financial planner at your disposal, you need help planning your wedding! From the food, the expenses and the entertainment to a million other details, there is so much to do. Do yourself a favor and read on for some fabulous advice on making your wedding easier, less stressful and of course, one unforgettable party!

When sending out your wedding invitations, remember that it is your day, so avoid any person or combination of people that will ruin it in any way for you. It may be an insult to someone not to be invited, but if having them at your wedding will cause even the slightest of issues for you or your future spouse, it is really in your best interest to keep them off your guest list.

On the morning of your wedding, you will have to give yourself extra time to get dressed since you will want everything to look perfect. Plan to start getting ready at least an hour before you usually would to avoid rushing to get to your wedding. This will allow you to look your best.

Give your husband-to-be, some cuff links and a tie clip on the morning of your wedding, so he can match your jewelry. It looks great in photos, when there is a splash of sparkle and color on both of you and it will be very meaningful for him to know that you were thinking of him on your big day.

While a perfectly matched place setting with plates, bowls, and silverware can create a dramatic, elegant, and timeless appearance for receptions and rehearsal dinners, it can also be extremely expensive. Instead, consider opting for plates, bowls, and utensils that share a common theme, such as a particular color, all floral prints, or a mismatched shabby chic look.

When you are going to get married, try to book your wedding venue at least a few months in advance. If you wait until last minute, the venue may not have any openings and you will have to scramble to find a place that will host your wedding reception on short notice.

Between your ceremony and your reception there can be a long down-time for your guests. If they can't be seated at their tables right away, choose a venue that has a bar or lounge available for them to hang out in while they wait for the guests of honor to arrive.




A fashionable and chic color palette is the best way to visually tie all aspects of your wedding and rehearsal together. The most effective color palette will always include at least three distinctive components: a main color, a bold accent color, and a touch of a metallic hue like gold, silver, or platinum.

Use a mirror to visualize and practice when you walk down the aisle, especially if you plan to wear heels. If you worry about twisting your ankle, wear pretty flats instead. Having less than sexy footwear is an easy trade-off for not falling on your derriere!

When picking out your wedding ring, make sure to get one you know you are going to like years down the line. Many people pick a random ring, and later decide that they do not like it. Also, if you are going to get matching bands, make sure both of you like them.

Silk flowers can be a good option to use in lieu of cut flowers. You can get these way in advance because they aren't fresh and then have them on hand and reduce one thing to do right before the big day.

Your cake may be a focal point in your wedding plans which means not only hiring the best your money can afford, but taking everything into consideration in your choices. Whether it be the theme, the flowers, your dress or whatever the cake ties into, do not hesitate to ask for the perfect cake. Find the right cake vendor who sees your vision and will carry it out.

If you plan on taking dance lessons for your wedding, find a teacher that will teach you some steps, and teach you how to lead and follow. By learning like this, you will be able to use it at other times, as well. You will also end up looking a lot more natural.

A gift registry is a wedding tradition. In order to make the occasion more pleasant for your guests, don't have them bring anything. Give them options if they insist on bringing something. Your guests should feel welcome no matter what their budget can afford.

When inviting parents to your wedding, consider what time it will be held if they're planning on bringing their kids. A night-time wedding with a reception that runs into the wee hours of the morning will not work well for children, so either move your ceremony to an earlier time or provide accommodation for children to have a nap during the reception.

If finances are tight, consider a themed wedding. Many couples do not have the money to spend on an open bar. You can make that a non-issue by holding a themed event that hides the fact that you are not offering a wide variety of alcoholic beverages. For example, if you choose an Italian themed reception, you can offer red and white wine with the meal.

If you can afford one, a wedding planner can be a huge time and stress saver. Not only can a planner coordinate your wedding and work with you to make your vision a reality, but she can also be a great resource for ideas and opinions. She will save you from dealing with every little minor detail and let you focus on high-level planning and being able to enjoy the process.

Do not serve champagne during the meal. You will save a lot of money on your wedding if you only use champagne for the toasts. Your guests can enjoy wine or other drinks during the meal, and you will be able to signify how special the toasts are to you by breaking out the champagne at that time.

You may want to consider not planning your wedding for a Saturday. There are a lot of weddings planned on Saturdays, normally because most everyone already has the day off. The issue with planning your wedding for that day is that most every church and reception hall is booked far in advance for each Saturday. By changing the day, you may find that the venue you genuinely want is available.

Make good use of all the helpful information available to you on effective wedding planning, and learn from the experiences of others who have come before you. Your wedding is a day to be celebrated and treasured and met with excitement. We wish you a beautiful and joyful day!